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Sink Your Teeth In: Biting in the Bedroom

Ever get the urge to bear down with your teeth into your playmate’s trembling skin during the burning heat of passion? 🥵🔥 Or are you secretly hoping they might do it to you? 🙋🫦 Maybe even leave a mark? 🙈

Today, we’re chatting about sexual biting – a tasty kink that you can reaaaaally get your teeth into… 😉🧛👇

Why do we bite? 😏

Ever heard of cute aggression? Like when you see something cute, like a kitten or a puppy, and feel an urge to squeeze it? 🤗

Sexual biting is a form of cute aggression! It’s that overwhelming emotional reaction that erupts out of you when you’re turned on 🫦 It’s a manifestation of that intense passion you feel towards your hot playmates when you’re hella aroused. 🥵

Biting is playful and primal. 💪 It’s an instinctual reaction to pleasure – like your toes curling, your fists grabbing the sheets, your back arching, your fingernails digging into their back… 🫦

According to our recent BDSM poll, 89% of you horny lot are up for biting or being bitten in the bedroom or the Dungeon. 😈 👉

A lot of us kinksters enjoy the pain specifically, but we’ll get into that later… ⛓😜

Just a lil’ nibble… 🫦

As tempting as it is to always follow our impulses when we’re getting filthy, you gotta chat about boundaries before sex, even when it comes to kinks that seem more vanilla on the surface. 🤷 Chat about your fantasies together… What are you up for exploring? 👀 What’s your pain tolerance? 😈 What’s your safeword, if the bite gets too intense? 🙅 Are you willing to leave with a mark on your skin? 💋 Whereabouts? 😏

If in doubt, start with a light nibble on your playmate’s earlobe or neck. 😋 If you get a positive response (mmmm, do that again! 😩) then you can work up in intensity. 😘

The humble hickey 💋

The hickey is the perfect gateway into a biting kink. 🫦 Feel free to skip this section if you know what you’re doing. 😉

A hickey (aka 'love bite’) is a small red bruise made up of broken blood vessels beneath your skin. 🩸 Most of the time, they don’t really hurt. Unless you want them to, of course… 😈

To give someone a hickey, start by choosing your spot. 👀 Most people go for the neck – it’s easy to get your mouth on, it’s a sensitive area with lots of nerve endings, and the thin skin and high blood flow makes it perfect for leaving your mark. 😜

During a steamy make-out sesh, move your kisses down to your chosen spot. 🎯 Round your mouth into an ‘o’ shape, and lightly suck on the skin in between kisses and soft nibbles for different angles of stimulation and pleasure. 🤤

The key to a hickey is in the sucking action, rather than the biting. 👄 It works in the same way erotic cupping – it creates a vacuum, and in doing so, brings blood closer to the surface of their skin. 🩸

You’ll need to be sucking for a total of twenty or thirty seconds (so not counting pauses to kiss or nibble) if you want the hickey to show up. 👌 It’ll take a few minutes for the mark to show, so in the meantime, tickle the now-extra-sensitive spot with your tongue to get your playmate shivering with anticipation. 😩😍

⚠️ A quick note: Hickeys can be hard to cover up, so ask beforehand, and aim for a spot lower down – maybe just beneath your collarbone – if they care about what others might think. ☝️

Sharpen your fangs 🧛🩸

Leaving a mark on your Sub, however temporarily, is a symbol of Dominance and ownership. ⛓ It’s the evidence of passion and desire. 🔥 It’s a physical manifestation of your inner feelings. 🫦 And it’s a show to other kinksters that this Sub is all yours. 💪😈

Biting is an outlet for all our dark, hidden, sadomasochistic desires. 💥 In the throes of heated passion, we unleash physically – and when you find someone who loves it as much as you do, it’s magic. ✨🤤

Subs get to feel the benefit of mixing pain and pleasure – your nerve endings are on high alert with the sharp sting of physical pain, so your skin becomes that much more sensitive. 😩😍 Doms, switch up the tone after a bite by caressing their red-hot skin ohhhh so gently with your tongue. 👅 Leave them quivering with horny anticipation… Ohhhhh fuuuuuck! 🥵

Ever fantasized about being bitten by a sexy vampire? 🧛 Indulge in roleplay to bring your dirty dreams to life. 😈 Grab yourself a cloak and a pair of fangs and get ready to sink your teeth in… 🫦

Cool down 🧊

Aftercare is especially important in BDSM. Doms: if you’ve left big bruises, grab some ice to soothe your Sub’s skin after everything has wound down. 👌

Bask in your orgasmic high, talk about the crazy antics you just did with each other. When you let your playmates know exactly what you loved about the kinky sex sesh, round two will be out of this world. 🤯 🔔

Do you love leaving a dark red mark on your playmate’s skin? How have you introduced biting into your sex life? Tell us all the dirty details in the comments! 🩸👇




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